Raising mission-minded children begins with authentic family worship and parents who model a genuine heart for the nations. It’s funny how much being a parent changes your perspective on things. Everyone tells you it will, and you believe them. Then it happens, and you are still amazed at the difference it makes.
A few years ago, I stumbled across a simple book by Don Whitney called Family Worship. While the concept is not new to me, I wanted to see if this little book provided fresh insight or if it was one I could recommend on the subject. I’m happy to report that both are true.
Whitney provides a quick walk-through of both Scripture and history, showing the importance of this practice throughout generations of the church. In doing so, he brings an arsenal of citations from church history to the table.
One quotation in particular stood out. It’s a quote from John Paton, a renowned missionary, in which he recalls the significance of family worship in his own home as a child:
“How much my father’s prayers at this time impressed me I can never explain, nor could any stranger understand. When, on his knees and all of us kneeling around him in family worship, he poured out his whole soul with tears for the conversion of the Heathen World to the service of Jesus, and for every personal and domestic need, we all felt as if in the presence of the living Saviour, and learned to know and love Him as our Divine Friend. As we rose from our knees, I used to look at the light on my father’s face, and wish I were like him in spirit, hoping that, in answer to his prayers, I might be privileged and prepared to carry the blessed Gospel to some portion of the Heathen World.”
The Power of Missionary Biographies: John Paton’s Story
Raised in Scotland, John Paton was a missionary to the South Pacific islands during the back half of the 19th century. Paton and his family spent decades working among a cannibalistic tribe that repeatedly made attempts on his life. He lost his first wife and several children to tropical diseases. And yet, by the end of his tenure, he saw an entire island profess Christ, translated the New Testament into their language, and trained enough missionaries from that island to send out to 25 additional islands.
To what did Paton attribute his earliest desires to serve Christ as a missionary? It was the example set by his father during family worship.
The fervent prayers of his father that the gospel would go to the nations were, in fact, answered through the obedience of his son. That calling in the son was formed and established by the example of the father.
Reading this as a parent, it struck a new chord in my own heart. Stories like Paton’s remind us why missionary biographies remain such powerful tools for raising kids with kingdom vision. When homeschool families study these accounts together, children see that Great Commission obedience is not abstract theology but lived-out faith.
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Do I Want My Children to Go?
My first interaction with a calling to missionary service was my own. I was already an adult and had been serving in collegiate ministry when God, through the work of my local church, called me to an extended season overseas among an unreached group in West Africa. I remember the conversations with my parents, both godly leaders in their own church. They were largely supportive, even proud at times, but I could see the emotional toll it took on them. To sacrifice themselves for the Great Commission was one thing, but to let go of their only child was a different ask.
I’m now a father. What I once saw in my parent’s eyes when discussing a calling overseas, I now feel in my own heart for my children.
Do I want my son and daughter to go?
As a Christian, as someone who believes the gospel and understands my own desperate need for it, I know the answer must be yes. The Great Commission was not given to a select few. No, the call to make disciples of the nations is for all who call upon the name of the Lord. As Danny Akin, president of Southeastern Seminary, is quick to say: the question is not why should we go, but why should we stay?
What Is “Best” for Our Kids? Thinking On-Mission
What is more, I want what is best for my children. If I am not careful, though, I will define “best” by the comfortable consumerist narrative around me instead of the Bible. What is best for my children? It is best that they know and love God, and it is best that they walk in obedience to all that he asks of them.
We as parents want our children to do big things, and what more worthy cause exists than taking the precious news of salvation to those who have never heard?
Is it safe? Of course not, but safety is only an illusion we’ve duped ourselves into feeling in our largely comfortable and self-sufficient surroundings in North America. Will it be a sacrifice? Most certainly. And yet, we must agree with the Apostle Paul when he writes:
“This grace was given to me, the least of all the saints, to proclaim to the Gentiles the incalculable riches of Christ, and to shed light for all about the administration of the mystery hidden for ages in God who created all things” (Ephesians 3:8-9 CSB).
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Modeling a Heart for the Nations Through Family Worship
By this point, I hope we are in agreement. Our prayer for our children is that they would follow Christ wherever he leads, responding to the Bible’s clarion call to the nations.
In Paton’s writing, he reveals the significance of his parents’ example in discovering his call to international missions. He writes:
“As we rose from our knees, I used to look at the light on my father’s face, and wish I were like him in spirit, hoping that, in answer to his prayers, I might be privileged and prepared to carry the blessed Gospel to some portion of the Heathen World.”
Parents, do not underestimate how much your concerns influence those of your children. If something weighs heavy on your heart, there is a good chance it will weigh heavy on theirs. And in order to model a heart for the nations, we must have one first. How much do you desire that the gospel go to the nations? Does that desire come to the surface as you parent? When was the last time your children heard you pray, in earnest, for the spread of the gospel to peoples and places far away?
Teaching Kids About Missions Through Visibility and Regularity
Modeling anything requires both visibility and regularity. Quite simply, our children must see us doing something and see it often for it to ever be truly modeled.
This is not practicing prayer for show, a practice Jesus soundly rebuked (Matthew 6:5-6). Instead, this is authenticity in front of those who need to see it the most: your family. To be sure, we do model an approach to God, his word, and his call on our lives before our spouse and children. The question is not “if” we will do so, rather “which” approach we will model.
Finally, we must encourage the right thing. Children will lean into those things which we celebrate. This is as true of spiritual maturity and obedience to the Great Commission as it is of sport or studies.
Raising Children with a Heart for Missions
Paton’s words weigh heavy on my heart. Paton speaks of the admiration he possessed for his father and how it created in him a desire to lean into his calling. I find myself in agreement with Paton, admiring the example set by his father.
My prayer is that our children will see that kind of faith in us, that they will see hearts that beat for the spread of the gospel. I pray we celebrate in them most those things which Christ desires, and we would find joy in their obedience to him, even to the ends of the earth.
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Frequently Asked Questions About Raising Missionary-Minded Children
How can family worship encourage missionary calling?
Family worship creates a sacred space where children witness their parents’ authentic passion for God’s kingdom. When children regularly hear fervent prayers for the nations and observe the “light on their father’s face” (as John Paton described), they absorb a heart for missions organically. This visibility and regularity shapes children’s spiritual priorities and helps them recognize God’s call on their own lives.
What are the best missionary biographies for kids?
John Paton’s autobiography offers gripping adventure and deep faith for older children. Other excellent choices include stories of Hudson Taylor, Amy Carmichael, and Gladys Aylward. Choose missionary biographies that match your children’s age and reading level, focusing on accounts that demonstrate both the cost and joy of gospel obedience. These stories transform abstract theology into lived reality.
How do I model a heart for the nations to my children?
Modeling a heart for the nations requires visibility and regularity in your own spiritual life. Your children need to:
- Hear you pray earnestly for unreached people groups and missionary families
- See you give sacrificially to missions work and discuss why it matters
- Watch you engage with missionaries’ updates with genuine interest
- Observe your joy when the gospel advances
This isn’t prayer for show (Matthew 6:5-6) but authentic passion lived out before your family.
Should I encourage my child to become a missionary?
Yes, but the question isn’t whether to encourage missionary service specifically. Rather, we should raise children who follow Christ wherever he leads. As Danny Akin asks: why should we stay? Every Christian is called to Great Commission obedience. Cultivate in your children a heart that celebrates gospel advancement and understands that knowing and obeying God is always best, even when it requires sacrifice.
Raising Missionaries for the Cause of Christ
My hope is that you would pray those same prayers. Parents, let’s raise up missionaries “for the cause of Christ.”
The work of raising mission-minded children doesn’t require a special curriculum or program. It requires parents whose hearts genuinely beat for the nations, who pray with tears for the lost, and who celebrate obedience to Christ above comfort and safety. When our children see that faith in us, when family worship becomes the place where God’s global purposes are proclaimed and pursued, we create the environment where missionary callings take root.
May our children look at the light on our faces and wish to be like us in spirit. May they be privileged and prepared to carry the blessed gospel to the ends of the earth.
Learn more about Judson College and the Missions program at judsoncollege.com.
Where will God lead your student after graduation? Use these helpful resources to help your student follow God’s calling:
- Homeschool High School Transcript Guide: 6 Biblical Strategies for Success
- Odyssey: A Christian Gap Year Program for Graduates
- The Hunger for Meaning: How Classical Christian Education Answers Life’s Biggest Question
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